I just don't get it. I feel like I am stuck still wondering how he can move on from what we had. We were together almost four years and had a child together 4 months before he broke up with me. We used to be so in love. I still am in love with him. I am hurting beyond belief. He broke up with me about 7 months ago. We still talk, about our child. Its so weird, because I want to talk about so much more. I know I need to move on. I am trying so hard to. But I still cry myself to sleep every night. I still email him in my weak moments. Every website says to do no contact, make him miss you. But even when I try to do that, every couple days he will text me asking about our son. I can't ignore him...he is his father. So then How I do make him miss me if I can't do no contact. I think it might be to late for him to miss me. He seems like he has moved on (emotionally). I just don't understand anything anymore. I love him so much and hurt more then I ever thought I would. What do I do?
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Just keep letting things out. Its going to hurt for a while. Just keep your head to the sky it noting much for you to do but just move even though you just want to sit there and wait I'm going through a similar problem just without the child. Just give your self some space and talk it out till you tired of talking about it to other people go out with your friends or just write all your feelings down on paper. Search Google they have lots of ideas on how to move on if you want to sit and wait. Its up to you. But there is hope I believe he may come back0