me and my ex are taking 3 months with no contact at all (which isn't too hard considering we had a long distance relationship)... its driving me crazy trying not to text or call him... I'm afraid he'll forget all about me :( ... feels like I'm having a harder time not talking to him then he does... what should I do? I really want him back... or to at least be on talking terms because I can't wait three months before I talk to him again... I need some encouraging words or advice here... any help? please! thanks!
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the anonymous user is right. 4 months is not long at all to legitimently fall in love with someone. And just because he spent lots of money to come see you doesn't mean anything except that he has a lot of money to spend. I hate to say this, but he's breaking up with you and trying not to hurt you all at the same time. Guys have a weird mindset. They think that ignoring a girl will help not only him move on, but the girl as well. Sometimes it works, but usually it doesn't. beleive me, its not easy getting over an ex. Especially one whom you fall in love with deeply and then ignores you for 4 months. He's giving you the space to move on with other guys while not feeling guilty about what he's done to you and hooking up with other girls. Don't think that he loves you if he would be willing to do something like this to you. In the end, he may just come running back. Maybe in a few months, maybe a couple of years, maybe never. In my eyes, if a guy doesn't want you now, he won't want you later.1