My ex and I became just friends after a few months of dating. and two weeks after that she started dating her long time best friend kyle. she always was friends with kyle while we was dating but never liked him liked him while was dating and I didn't care that she talked to him because they was best friends and I didn't want to seem jealous. but after we became just friends 2 weeks later she started dating him. she said he had absolutely nothing to do with us at all and I don't think shed lie. she's straight forward. but 6 days after they got together up he cheated on her twice with his ex and they completely broke up. I liked her all along and we're still friends but I never interfered with her or kyle. and I'm not worried about her liking any other guys for a while because me and kyle was really the only guys she ever talked to. she really don't talk to many guys. she's a girly girl and she still considers me her friend. so I think I have plenty of time to get her back before anyone else comes along. what should I do to get her re interested in me again? I'm not going to move on either. I'm going to give it one more try. everyone deserves a second chance. what's the best steps I could do to get her to like me again? be her friend? use no contact? ask her to hangout just as friends in a few days once she feels better after this break up? please help. I want her back. She's something very special to me
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i would suggest you should start being more in contact with her, more hangout but not too much either. jus like at least once in a day and keep on textin her abt how she feels is she good stuff like that.
always mention in your converstion that you care.
always let her talk or ask questions to her if she stays upsets.
support her ask her that whatever she needs you will b there for her always.
dont say you love her, in between you need to b patient and gain a kind of trust a bond with her that in future if you really like her she wil count on you for her problems ask her to share things when you think she is really upset.
this will take a lttle while but don't rush up because if you guys got into an argument later she would think you took an advantage of her breakup.
always show up caring talk abt funny things to make her laugh.
girls realize abt these things you might had done for them. and finally that would b the time to tell her abt your feelings.
u have to take it easy and behave as a 'bff' and keeping your feelings aside sooner or later you will get her back.
if any further questions feel free to message, I would b happy to hear from you :)