i dated a girl for about 3 months. I was amazing to her. Maybe too nice. It was great to be with her. We got super close super fast. Crazy chemistry, sparks the whole works. I can tell when I look into her eys and when I held her that she had very strong feelings for me. But she started talking to other guys while we were together. She started going out to places without me. She didn't even get me a birthday present. She dumped me. And she started seeing another guy (he's ugly). But I can't get this girl out of y head. I still care about her and really like her and I want her back. What's wrong with me...?
Whats wrong with me?
What Girls Said 2
there is nothing wrong with you... you feel wronged by her and you are feeling even worse because of the rejection... everyone does.
u shud be glad it was only 3 months... my guy left me after 5 years out of the blue... but can one do except save the last shreds of dignity and move on. if she has to come back she will do that. its better to accept the bitter truth than harbour false hopes.0
I think you also care about her because she rejected you. Honestly, you should stop caring about someone who does not value for who you are.
"Maybe too nice" - just be yourself. If you are worried about being too nice, or not too nice, etc. it means you are trying too hard to accommodate her. If you cannot be yourself with her - that is already a big warning sign.
She did not get you a present for your Birthday? Did she take you out for a date (fancy restaurant, sports game, etc.) at least?0
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