so do guys who have dumped their gfs...would want their ex girlfriend to try to contact them... or would they want the girl to forget about them and move on..
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although I cannot say for certainty what guys are thinking since I am not one, I can tell you what my ex TOLD me. and even then, every single guy is different. some give a sh*t, others dont. so, when my ex first broke up with me, he didn't talk to me for 3 wks, but I was still sending him emails. after that 3 weeks, he called me and I'm pretty sure at that time, he had secretly wanted me to contact him (he never told me not to) so I was glad I did. but after that, things got bad and then a week later he DID tell me not to ever contact him, to leave him alone. I did for 3 weeks hoping he would contact me but he didn't. and so, I started emailing, and texting again. he then responded to one of my emails and said to stop contacting him, that he has moved on without me and is happier, and that I should do the same. that was the last thing he said to me which was a week ago. (yeah, it hurt like a b*tch to read that)
now I can only believe that no, he doesn't want me to try to contact him.(and I havent) but guys (and girls) are funny sometimes that way. they say not to contact them, but they secretly want them to. I don't get it personally, that's just games to me. but, I'd say to save yourself heartache, do whatever he says. and if he says to leave you alone, and you do, he has no one to blame but himself if changes his mind and you have already moved on. that's how I am looking at my situation now. hope this helps!0