so my ex wants to get back together. We broke up because we got in a "funk" and things just didn't feel the same and neither of us were happy, she was constantly sketchy and it would always p*ss me off, and there were nights where I wouldn't hear from her till the next day because she was out with her friends. twice her phone died, and the other times she just didn't look at her phone, I would question her about it and it would only make her mad because it made it seem like I didn't trust her and she's never had a boyfriend before me so I would feel like the guilty one, I don't know rather to look at this as sketchy or just her not used to having to call someone to say "i made it home safely goodnight" After we broke up a few weeks went by and we started talking again and said we would get back together after the holidays. That never felt right and I knew I would only find out if I actually missed her if I completely ended it. so I did. So a few months have gone by and we go back to school in a week. We talked on the phone the other day and she said how she wanted to change for me and put everything into our relationship and try 100 percent. But she is still a sketchy texter and sometimes I won't hear from her for the whole day until I get a call late in the night. So do I buy what she is saying? Should I give her another shot? Or go with another girl I've been texting the whole break? Thanks in advance
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Ok... well based on what you wrote, it doesn't sounds like you have any reason not to trust her. I am the same way with my phone, I never check it, am constantly missing calls and forget to charge it all the time. Now, if her behavior had suddenly changed and she just now start to ignore your calls and forget to text you, when before she was more attentive to her phone then I would say she is acting sketchy.
But all that aside, it doesn't sound like you're really that interested in making things work with her. And if your feelings for her aren't strong enough, then you should let it be and walk away.0