i have this ex boyfriend. he was my 1st boyfriend. I really took him seriously. I'm choosy with guys. we broke up like 1month and 2wks. we broke up because he was neglecting me. before he wasn't like that but as time passed he'll just contact me when he wants to. he is really weird. seriously. then when I broke up with him after that he was still trying to contact me somehow. asking how am i. and that he wants us to be back together but he thinks he can't change he said he really tried. and told me give him time.
he says he is sorry with everything. somehow he contacts me. til he contacted me again we got into like an argument he got pissed with me, but after a few days he messaged me he told me he really misses me but he knows that I don't want to see him anymore I told him I'm not mad at him that he can see me anytime he wants. so yeah the next day he called me he told me he really misses me and then I laughed. he got pissed at me he said I'm not the same girl he knew before (so I was like wtf.) now its like he is changing the topic. I'm the one who changed? he was the one who really changed. I told him I don't know if I should believe you. I don't know if you are telling the truth. and I didn't change. I'm like this because we broke up. you made me this way. so he was updating me with what's happening to him lately. and then he told me til now he doesn't have anyone except me. he told me he loves me. he said he will go to my place the next day so we could talk. so yeah I tried to be nice again the next day I texted him that I was expecting him to come to my place so we could talk but he didn't reply. but that afternoon he was texting me somehow updating me with what's happening to him. but that night HE DIDNT COME. so yeah he stood me up again! (he is telling me he misses me he sh*t talked me again)
so my friends told me to text him like after 2days I told him that I really miss him that I didn't change that I hope we could really talk. I'm trying to adjust and make things right again thinking that maybe he thinks that I don't want him anymore! but he didn't reply. before way back before he told me we were suposed to really meet that week but he didn't contact me he didn't go there again.
see when I care he doesn't care when I don't care he gets mad. until now I still love him. I'm getting hurt. because I really love him. I'm confused with him. I can't understand him. I'm not contacting him anymore since I last texted him and he didn't reply to me. he was even getting mad at me because there are these guys who were like commenting on me in my fb. so I was thinking its not my problem because I'm now single and that I was just being nice to them.
so I can't really understand him. I'm sorry if my story is messed up. :( help!
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Forget him! He's just playing mind games he's not worth it, ignore his calls you don't have to put up with sh*t like this!0