OK, so I believe I have my first full blown psycho ex... We were good friends for a year, chill out, party buddies. She lied to me a lot in that time as I know now. Played it off like she was a good girl with bad luck...
We dated 7 months, I lost my license 2 months in, she got me to move in with her, big mistake. She got psycho controlling, going through my phone, hacking emails, insane jealousy, the works. I put up with it for 5 months and it progressively got worse, I tried everything to get her over it, nothing worked till I got tired of being accused of being a cheater, and a liar, when she was stuck to me like velcro all the time (how could I be?)
So I had enough, I told her I was tired of being treated like a piece of sh*t 95% of the time and walked. I told her the relationship had changed from the give take awesome friendship, to me giving all I had and it never being enough. She promised change, stuck to it for a day, then changed her mind, the re promised, she went back and forth like this for about a week. I just listened to what she said, she showed no consistency so I ignored it.
Then she raged, called me every name under the sun, started hooking up with a bunch of my "loser" friends as she called them (she hooked up with the most loserish ones though) tried befriending my old female friends she never let me talk to and tried to get them to choose me or her. Started rumors that I was gay, started rumors I had gotten into drugs, and that I cheated. She actually started doing cocaine the day after we split.
Lately after I tried calling her out on the rumors she's spread and the sh*t she has done she snapped again and told me to watch my back.
I'm thinking peace order or something. This is getting stupid. I'm 20, I'm not playing high school games. What do I expect from a girl like this? Keyed car? Screwing with future relationships? I'm new the the psycho ex world.
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wow she sounds like a piece of work. she seems to go for more psychological attacks (getting with your friends and trying to manipulate them against you etc.) than doing anything physically like keying your car.
i'm assuming you moved out and broke up with her? that is the first step just try and stay away from her. if she comes after you or tries to mess with future girlfriends confront her calmly about it. (I know it sounds lame but being the more mature one and the bigger person makes a difference.)
if none of that works for this chick then a restraining order might be the next step. good luck.0