i've always been suspicious of my boyfriends relationship with his ex and after coming across msg's of them meeting up 6 months ago I've had major trust issues, I finally confronted him and he promised he wouldn't do it within a month he's been on fb chatting to her and sent private e-mails to her that didn't delete properly, I know I'm 100% wrong for reading these emails but I don't trust him and I want to talk to him about it but how can I when I only found out about it because I went through his personal stuff,
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Some people are still friends with their exes.
Like my friend Sean, he and my friend T dated for a bit (maybe 5 months?) and then they broke up and they still talked while she dated someone new, then they dated again for a month, then broke up and she was with someone new but they still hung out. That is because they were friends before hand. Also they hang out with her new fiance and with me and Sean. And at house parties, T and Sean hang out with the same group of people so everyone is there. T, Sean, and her other ex and her new fiance. everyone sort of gets along. She still talks to Sean and they are still good friends. Plus one of her ex fiance's whom she dated for like 5 years before Sean she is best friends with.
Now if he reassures you that him and his ex will never get back together, and that you have nothing to worry about then you should just let it go. On the other hand, if there are hints that you should be worried that they will get back together and that he loves her still then you should bolt.