My boyfriend and I are both 19 and have been dating for about two years now, we come from the same school but very different cliques I have recently found out I need to move and live on my own which his parents are against but he says he doesn't care and he loves me and wants to live with me but every now and then he suddenly changes his mind and wants a 'trial' period and says he was just going to say his goodbyes anyway after he was sure I was set up. I just don't understand! I have asked him multiple tomes and he said he feels the relationship is just going to end anyway and there's nothing I can do but then reassures me he is happy and loves me' he just needs to reevaluate the relationship after we move out to see if it's the same -
I am screwed if he leaves :/ what do I do?! Why is he doing this?!
I have been reassuring him the whole way but he keeps changing his mind and I can't afford him to do that
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you're both young and moving into a different stage of life, so it's seemingly rushed and there's the pressure of failure, which he's concerned about...this is normal, and your job is to confide in him your assurances that it can work...from my experience, I'd have to side with him if you're both 190