Here's the story.. I dated this girl for a year... it started off with her cheating on her current boyfriend with me, but I had no clue until later. She waited until I was a "sure thing" to break up with him. We dated for a year then she did the same thing to me. A couple months later, she contacts me and apologizes and admits that her new fling was a rebound when our "spark" wasn't all there anymore. She tells me that she still loves me and wants to get back together... I give her the second chance, but again, SHE WAS STILL WITH THE GUY until she figured I was a sure thing. This story repeats itself for one other guy... She played us all for chumps but always comes back to me, because I'm assuming I was the most serious and long term... I know that I'm stupid for going back to her any amount of times, but I've finally learned my lesson... Our last fling went on for about a month and she cheated on me with the second guy from earlier... I found out and broke it off as soon as possible... My question to you guys is should I tell these other guys what she has done, since I am the only one to figure out her game. So far, I have been the reason that she has cheated / broken up with both of them, except now, she is back together with one. I have been hurt by her time and time again, and as a result, I will probably have trust issues in the future and I don't want to see her do that to someone else... Should I try and contact them and tell them what she is doing, and run the risk of sounding like the "jealous ex", or just let them figure it out on their own?
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Don't be that guy and tell her boyfriends. You are not the reason she cheated on the other two guys. She has no integrity and that's the real reason.
"Once a cheater, always a cheater."
I'd ignore her and move on. Learn from this experience so you don't get hurt again in the future.1