I had a argument with my girlfriend which ended with her saying this isn't working. I didn't know why she was angry And thought she'd had enough of me as it came from nowhere. I went out with a mate to get my mind off of it and we got really drunk, he tried to set me up with a girl in the pub and I wasn't interested but as the night went on and I got drunker I said stuff it and asked her if she'd like to go out for a drink, she said yes and I gave her my number. It was a 30 second conversation, I did it stupidly to shut my mate up from nagging. The next day I called my girlfriend in an attempt to resolve things and she finally opened up and told me that she was sorry for being off and that she'd taking things out on me because she'd lost a baby a before us and a week ago got an email from a site she'd signed up to stating her baby would be 45 weeks now so she wasn't going to leave me and was just dealing with stuff she was scared to tell me about and now I can't get it out my head what I did to her. I have never cheated on anyone before and I don't know what to do! My male friends say leave it but I can't get it out of my head what I did! I know I messed up and I have never done anything like that before, I was drunk and stupid and angry about the argument but now I feel I've messed up and am scared I'll lose my girlfriend!
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You didn't cheat. You did something stupid, and if you really just did it to shut up your friend, then your intentions weren't to cheat either. Yes, it was a mistake, but I don't think its worth it to tell your girlfriend. Learn from the mistake, politely tell the girl that you can't see her if she ends up calling, and move on.0
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