There's this guy on my uni course who I'm pretty cure is interesting in me. I think I gave him the wrong impression by dancing with him on my birthday. And now he texts a lot, and keeps dropping little compliments and hinting to take me out. But he hasn't asked me out yet.
The thing is, I don't want to go out with him. How can I make sure he knows this?
I don't want to just plain shoot him down because I have to see him everyday at uni, but I want to make sure he knows I'm not interested in a non-awkward way. Any suggestions?
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First of all, what "sinful1620" said was sick. A guy's misunderstanding of a woman doesn't give him a license to rape or even the emotional justification to rape, ESPECIALLY SINCE research has shown that men are notoriously bad at misunderstanding women.
Women are typically good at guessing whether or not a guy is interested. However, guys have the tendency to mistake interest for friendliness and vice versa. Look it up. It's science.
That said, I've had guys fall for me simply because I said "hi" to him a few times. If you're not interested, just stop being friendly with him. You don't even have to be mean. If he doesn't get the hint, because some of them don't, just say "I think you're nice but I feel we're spending too much time together. I'm interested in someone else".
If that still doesn't work (and it hasn't worked for me before) just tell the guy flat out that you're not interested in him.