Regardless of the reasons, weather it was the biggest mistake of your life or anything else, would you risk loosing your partner, hurt them and tell them or keep it a secret? Would your answer be different if you were married or in a serious relationship as opposed to just starting out etc?
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You're not gonna like this anwer!
I'm married, I love my wife, she loves me, thus if I cheated on her it would be the stupidest thing I could do.
If I did it (in a drunk folly for instance) I'd regret it and be unhappy and ashamed, I'd feel real bad about it.
If I did it and told it her I'd done it I'd feel a bit less bad but she would feel worse than if she didn't know.
Now draw the logical conclusion : what would be best for her?
If she cheated on me, I'd prefer not to know it.