Might seem bizarre, but if everything is going well... I've known people to start worrying over absolutely strange things that are clearly not true. And I've found myself doing the same.
I'm used to having issues in my relationships, and I guess that when it's going well I can't really believe it so my mind will make me somewhat paranoid that something should be wrong and perhaps I don't know about it. I find myself worrying that my other half was cheating or that she was getting bored of me, when really that just wasn't happening.
Do you find yourself doing this?
Do we create problems to keep ourselves interested in our relationship? Can we not accept that everything can actually go well and just have to worry anyway?
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OMG! That's exactly what I do. I thought of writing such question but knew people wouldn't understand me. I'm not insecure or needy or clingy though. I don't ask where were you? whom you talk to? etc... but If he's distant a little bit I panick or I just miss the love! I have no idea.
If things were peaceful for long, I feel smth isn't right so I believe I come up with questions or inquiries about smth.
Maybe we get bored easily or maybe we have been through a lot in life so we can't believe things CAN be peaceful and good!
I don't even realize that I create problems. In my own thought it's just smth I need to talk about or know. Some friends comment that it's a bad timing or it's nthn..you're jus creating a proble,.I dunno
I'm just glad I found you..so you could understand me :))1
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