I'm a 22 year old male. I often go on dates with women and have had a number of relationships. I always end up ending the relationships because of the women being uncommunicative and untalkative. I really want a woman who is talkative, communicative, open and informs me of her life. I also want a woman who makes conversation, is able to ask me questions and enjoys being asked questions about herself.
I find that trying to find a woman like this is absolutely impossible as all the women around my age I meet are all extremely non talkative and communicative, despite any common interests we may have.
Growing up, I always looked forward to dating real women. Women who are talkative and hold conversations. I've have found that in reality, women are extremely non chatty, open and communicative.
Why are women like this these days? Is it possible to find a talkative and communicative woman?
The communication doesn't even have to be in depth. I struggle to find women of a talkative nature.
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UNFORTUNATELY, today's media does send really odd messages to women...be independent (not needy), DON'T be too chatty (men don't like it...think about it all the sitcoms, etc brand any chatty woman as a drama queen or empty headed) , don't reveal too much, etc.
I think women are confused about our role in dating relationships. We either talk incessantly about ourselves OR clam up. There are women out there that you will meet that have a balance. They talk, and listen...really listen, and when they talk it isn't always about themselves and their friends and drama.
It is an age/confidence thing. Women are told to be nice and be desirable, yet we all want to be loved for who we are...female traits, softness, nurturing, etc. are seen as weak, and women are told to be strong and independent. You just haven't found the right fit. As I said, it's an age/maturity/confidence thing. Young women want to have fun and not be too serious, that is, of course, until they find they guy they want to sink their claws into...then look out!