But don't talk to them or see how they are doing?
Please don't say ex is an ex for reason...lol Some say that because they are too lazy to answer the question.
Whats wrong with every blue contact with an ex? only if your not married...
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It's not easy to tell that and maybe even impossible. I behaved the exact same way both when I cared about her and when I didn't care at all. Because if you care... you don't want to be thinking about her all the time and avoid contact and if you don't care than you just don't bother even replying.
I think casual talking is alright but the thing is that most people are not capable of that. Especially the people who insist on staying friends at all cost... I managed to stay friends with a few exes without deliberately trying to do so but the ones who are really determined to stay friends are mostly just trying to play games.
I understand the concept of liking someone and wanting him to do well and hear from him even though you can't imagine yourselves together but I only rarely see it work. Both people need to look after each others feelings and one little misstep can end it all.
One of my examples would be her telling me she misses me, cries after me and that she never wanted to leave me but she had to because I was mean to her. You could argue that it should have made me feel flattered but she was basically telling me how she broke up because 'I was immature and she couldn't see a future with me' for months and brought this basically when I finally regained equilibrium and felt better than ever.1