I have been dating other guys because I thought that would help me get over my ex, he was my first love. Everytime I go out with a guy it's just not the same as when I was with my ex. This is not making me happy. I have tried everything; dating, exercise, eating right, keeping myself busy but I just can't get over my ex, it's just something so special what I still feel for him and I don't know what else to do.
Oh and we were together for 2 years.
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I know exactly how you feel. My ex hasn't talked to me in five months, and I still can't bring myself to get over him no matter what I do. The truth is, no amount of distractions are sufficient to help you get over your first love. I know that it probably doesn't seem like it right now, but there is someone out there who is just as good and if not, better for you. You'll find that person - but it's going to be when you aren't seeking it out. And you know what? More often than not, people do get second chances with exes. However, it's most likely not going to be until the day you're with another guy because that's when the jealousy will kick in (guys want what they can't have). In that case, you'll have to assess whether or not he is worth the effort. I know that this might not entirely helpful, but the truth is that time heals all wounds.1