so me and my ex were together for a year, got engaged and planned on getting married. she ended up telling me she had interest in another guy, it upset me quite a bit. than she asked how she could resolve the problem. I told her to stop further contact from him. she got mad and said no that she won't stop talking to her friends. so I left her knowing that she still wants interest in this guy. well a week later she begs me to give her a 2nd chance so I did, than one night I talked to her on the phone and she was hanging out with another kid alone. I was very frustrated. after we got off the phone she ignored me the rest of the night, than told me her phone died...i didn't believe it. so I left her again. she than comes back again begging for a 3rd chance and that she will make things right...i loved her so much so I gave her another chance. well as time went on I realized myself worrying about what she is doing and finding out that no matter how hard I try, I can't trust her. I told her this and said that we need to break things off for good. she got pissed started calling me a liar and that I broke a promise of giving her a 3rd chance, I got mad and we exchanged words. I told her I can't trust her because she is always doing stuff behind my back. on halloween she wore a slutty costume when she knew I didn't feel comfortable with it, than she gave her number to another guy. I told her that she wanted to be a slut for a night. I felt bad and shouldn't have said that. well she tells me I never loved her and that our relationship was a lie, and that I'm a total d*** and to controlling of her. I'm controlling of her because I'm across the world right now and didn't want her hanging out with certain people. I eneded up hanging up the phone on her thought about it all night and told her sorry the next morning for what I said, but that I didn't regret it. we both need to move on. she than replies I don't think we should talk again until your home, you remind me to much of my ex.
what does she mean by talk when I get back? she's completly confused, and always wants to be with me or date other people, its not one thing.
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She's a prick since she has no respect for you. Surely, hanging out with friends is fine but just herself and another brah? Something sketchy is going on. As for Halloween, it's bit over-rated and I do feel you about your ex-girl making herself look slutty and GIVING HER DIGITS TO SOME MOTHERFUCCER~ that's a big NO-NO (in my type of long term relationship).
Find another girl who will respect herself, you, and everyone around. Also responsible and mature.0