Need some advice getting over my ex girlfriend of 2 years
What Girls Said 1
Advice on getting over a girl: Time.
Take the time to get over her, don't think about her, go get some hobbies, find some new friends. Don't focus on a relationship. Like you said, you'd never been focused on it before, so don't focus on it now. Just let yourself chill and relax and heal.
You'll find the girls. Go to the beach, get a dog, go to a bar. Check out the girls online. Whatever. Just don't sit and stew, don't think about her in bed with someone else. She played you, and you're going through the stages of grief. Allow yourself to mourn (you've done that), now get mad, get motivated, get a gym membership.
My ex left my daughter and me for another woman, I cried, I yelled, I begged, I was basically a stereotype, but I got over it. And after a ten year marriage from hell where everyone told me I could do better, I realized they were right, it just took me time to see past the end of my nose. I doubt I'll ever get married again, too many people looking for the stereotypical Hollywood romance, but I do have fun dating and meeting new people, making new friends.
Look to the future, do all the things she never wanted to do. Life is fun, there are a lot of people out there...Go meet some of them :)0
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