He broke up with me because he is going out of state for school and said his heart wasn't in the relationship anymore. He said I'm a great woman but he wants to take this journey alone and maybe remain in contact. I agreed to breaking up since he wanted it and then ran into him at our hangout with friends. He kept trying to talk to me and staring. I told him I love him and wish him the best for closure for myself. He then almost started crying. He leaves next week. I haven't contacted one time. Will he possibly contact me at some point? Part of me still wants things to work out, but the whole relationship he was indecisive about a lot of things.
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I'm not a guy but wanted to comment on something I've picked up recently...
People who still hang with their ex as "friends" or "Lets keep in touch" either means one of 2 things:
1) I'm gonna hang around with other people and see if I can't get better...but if I don't, I still want a door to come back to...
2) I want to boast with my new girl/bf and you seeing who I'm with is a hell of an ego boost for me!
This is cruel and selfish! Why keep other people on a line for selfish means. If you cut it off with your ex at least give a damn and cut it off completely!
Let the person heal & move on with their life!
Ok, I've blowed my top for the day!
Hope you get a good answer for your Q, dear!