I wrote a letter like you mention to. The letter was mail on Jan 27, 2010, However the ex fiance sent me a text this evening.
I just want to tell you that I didn't talk to you not because I don't want to but because it would be too hard. I never want you to hurt and its easy for me just? to in silence, rather than have anxiety. really sorry. I prayed for both of us
so I decided not to text back
How she send me another text
"would you sell the receiver to Jose? If not its cool"
This weird cause she still has the engagement ring and phone cause I am paying for it
then I text saying
Hi Jennifer I am busy at the moment can I get back to you when I am free, thanks
the she text
so what does this mean? what should I do...please help Jason
OK sure. sorry I was bothering u
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She's collected herself enough to contact you which is good, sounds like she regrets going silent on you and she wants you to know that she still cares about you but the way she deals with things is to go away and clear her head.
I think she's cutting her ties with you, she's getting you out of her life she she has no reminders and can heal in peace. I think you should just try to make it as easy as possible for her, if she wants to move on let her even if it means accepting back the engagement ring and phone so she feels as if she doesn't owe you anything.
By her response 'OK sure. sorry I was bothering u'
She's still hurting, and she's probably angry that you're ignoring her0