What do you think is the BIGGEST reason for a breakup happening?

What do you believe the main reason is?

*I only add option C because some people talked about this on one of my recent Takes on breakups and while I might not entirely agree with it I do think it's interesting and could be kinda true.
What do you think is the BIGGEST reason for a breakup happening?
  • Differences got in the way/Arguing
    Vote A
  • Cheating
    Vote B
  • The woman had other guys lined up
    Vote C
  • Someone lost interest
    Vote D
  • Both sides just drifted apart
    Vote E
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Most Helpful Guys

  • You don’t understand marriage, and that too is part of our problem. There are many reasons for an increase in divorce. If I could lead my live over, I would never have sex outside of marriage and never look at pornography. It is said and in my case is true you take every sex partner and every fantasy to the bedroom with you and this adversely effects your relationship and sexual behavior with the one person you have chosen to be with until you die.

    Your life partner is your best friend, for the man the sexiest lady, for a girl the greatest man. This is way we should not get into sexual relations without being committed to the relationship. Marriage is commitment.

    Marriage is unconditional not love. Marriage is not just great sex. When you marry it is for life, no matter what life gives; sickness, health, poverty, wealth, joy or sorrow. No matter what you are committed to each other. There is no excuse for dissolving this union of too people. This takes commitment, you are both committed to make the marriage work at all times in all ages. Looks change, sex changes, but commitment last for a lifetime.

    So, the bottom line is people are getting together (married) without making a commitment to assure the marriage lasts.

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  • Women love opportunistically. If they are not happy they will move on and do the big upgrade. The problem with that is the problems are often fixable but a lot of women are not interested in trying to fix them. Then you have the all too common problem with cheating which ties in with the women love opportunistically theory.

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Most Helpful Girls

  • First off, why does option C say, "women?"
    Not to be that person, but you should have said "person" instead since guys can do the same...

    As for reason? I mean realistically it depends on each individual, but I'd say lost of interest, because it can really covers everything to an extent.

    Think about it:

    •If you lose interest in a partner, you start picking fights with the other person and arguing until you breakup.

    •If you're no longer interested in your partner, you start to look at others, flirt, and possibly cheat.

    •And if someone has guys or girls on the side, or finds someone else they're interested in, they lose interest in their current partner and leave them.

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    • I explained why I said women.

      Your answers are pretty much all the ones I laid out. I just wanna know what people think the BIGGEST reason is.

    • 6d

      I'd say it's harder for guys to lead women on than it is vice versa. Outside of harem anime I dont too often see legions of girls throwing themselves at a guy unless he is rich, famous, and incredibly handsome. An average guy isn't going to have that happen to him any time soon. Meanwhile for an average girl its certainly easier. Common? Probably not but certainly easier

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  • People no more put enough effort into their relationship. People are like, oh no I want blue bed sheets you want yellow, omg fuck buying a bedsheet that had both blue and yellow in it, I am a dumb person who is gonna dump you right now because we clearly aren't meant for each other.

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  • I'd say most likely a mix of a b and c. There were differences she lost interest and cheated. And from what I can tell most women (particularly white oddly enough) have other guys lined up if the relationship goes south.

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  • It's when people start talking things for granted. Treating a g\f as if you've been married 20 years and just got in a rutt. Instead of treating each date was like the first, treating them as special and something precious...

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  • Women would only have other guys lined up if she wasn’t fully satisfied in her relationship. A lack of communication and willingness to compromise is why loving relationships don’t last. Otherwise it’s easy. They not living relationships.

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    • I think women will have men lined up even if they are satisfied in the relationship. I think women are very opportunistic.

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    • @wittymilf Can't say I think there's anything smart about keeping guys on hand for just-in-case or fail-safe feelings, or looking at any next guy as a perfect bridge from the other.

      Not sure guys have to wish. Or really do.

    • I wouldn’t know. I’ve been with my husband 25 years 🤷‍♀️ I know heaps of guys

  • The men's stomach wasn't kept filled and his balls weren't kept drained..

    Women didn't got enough money!
    And didn't found enough emotional energy..
    To live on

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  • Well I read somewhere that the most common reason for divorce and or breakups was finance reasons. Then, I suppose it's cheating.

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    • I've heard that said too. I think cheating is actually first.

    • Eh, depends on the factors you're looking for, but its usually a close tie between the two if you ask me. Not that it makes you feel any better knowing the truth 😅😅

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      I'd say it makes me feel a little better knowing my scepticism isn't without its reasons.

  • Money, plain and simple. If a man doesn't have enough money or a woman is spending too much of his money on stupid shit there will be a breakup.

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  • Cheating is the number one, in my opinion; it's the cause of a good number of murder-suicide tragedies in my country.

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  • It’s all different anecdotally. But in my opinion, the number one cause of most breakups is uncontrolled pride.

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  • when they each fail to provide one anothers needs in the relationship.

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  • Unequally yoked relationships later being revealed.

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  • For me its the MAN who had other women he was sleeping with and ditched me

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  • Incompatibility.

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  • Lack of effective communication.

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  • Loss of feelings for each other or for one person

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  • unfullfilling

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  • female hypergamy.

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  • Change if mind.

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  • it can be anything

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