Really can't take her schedule and life style, what to do?

So its this girl im dating, has 4 yr son and nephew.
seems like everytime i want to hang out there's has be a reason why we can't. either she's working, take her nephew here or son there and cause this stuff we had reschedule our date twice cause of work. and hanging out cause of her kids.

she's going through a lot but i feel i shouldn't have to put up with this before our 1st date. why, syddenly her cousin died yesterday, she been needing help with bills which is nearlly 500 every 2 weeks, i helped her with stuff around her house before but its like what am i getting out of it? im not talking about sex.
talking bout being treated special too or a small gift or something. i dont leave through hard times but this shit is jus too much. not sure what to do?
Really can't take her schedule and life style, what to do?
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