What is da reason behind high divorce rates in loved marriages where da couples slept around wid many partners b4 mrg in the name of compatibility?

Why do a virgin husband (by choice) gets upset after finding out that his arranged marriage wife is not virgin and slept with many others n hid it? If sleeping around is alright and is good thing then why does it effect marriages?
What is da reason behind high divorce rates in loved marriages where da couples slept around wid many partners b4 mrg in the name of compatibility?
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