I don’t necessarily want to get back at him, I’m not going out my way, he’s ringing me. I want to know the best way to respond. Respond with some home truths, or stay silent..
"What bothers a cheating ex more..."You're clearly holding some emotion towards him, otherwise you wouldn't care, and you certainly wouldn't care so much as to ask on here about it.
Of course I am!!! I wanna do whatever is going to make him feel the worst. He cheated on me, so he can stew and feel as bad as possible
You literally just said a moment ago "I don't necessarily want to get back at him..."Either way, he's going to care a lot less than you'll expect him to.
So what will have the most impact, answering his call and telling him some home truths or ignoring his call? Back to the question :)
As I said: either option will be short lived. Toss a coin and you'll get your answer.
I’m not asking whether it’ll be short or long lived, though. I’m asking which one would be the most savage option.
Neither is "savage". He isn't going to care. Neither option will cause him pain or discomfort. You will feel worse from it than he will!
One’s got to have more impact than the other, he’s ringing my phone constantly.
If he didn’t care he wouldn’t be ringing me constantly
Sure, one probably will, but without knowing the guy ots impossible to say which one would. Nobody on the internet is going to know him better than you.
I also didn’t say they were savage in themselves, I’m asking which is more savage of the two options. Lol.
I’m asking your opinion hypothetically. I know you don’t know him. I’m asking what you think, it’s an opinion.
I gave you my opinion haha we're going round in circles here
You haven’t picked one option or the other though. Which one would bother you more?
Neither. If id cheated (which i never would) then both responses would ultimately be empty and hollow to me.
Okay, say you hadn’t cheated and it was just someone you were dying for a response from after a fight. Would a savage response or silence get to you more?
Depends what the "savage" response is
Just the opposite of what you want to hear, the opposite of them making up with you how you want. Which would get to you more?
Being ignored probably
Mine does, he’s a control freak.
Sure he does. Like you're an attention whore?
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He rings me on different numbers and catches me off guard.
Take legal action if you really want it to stop
Lol, the police would laugh and tell me to stop wasting their time. They’ve got real crimes to be dealing with, like child groomers and rapists.
Don’t call me an idiot. It’s not a case to build. He’s not harassing or stalking me, there’s real victims out there and you’re suggesting I go down that route? I’m not scared for my life... “idiot”, I’m asking how to handle the situation, what will make him stew more.
So you want to keep him in your life and torment him. You are a drama queen. You really don’t want him to stop. VPO’s aren’t about being scared for your life. That’s what Restraining Orders are for which is more severe than a VPO which is about harassment idiot. As far as guns I ask questions that prove how stupid liberals are regarding them. I give idiot women like you grief for being so stupid when it comes to an ex. My points are do really want him out of your life or not and if not then why are you posting the question
You’re soooooo bitter Hahahaha have you been rejected a lot in your 57 years on earth babe? X
No my girlfriend of 3.5 years is a hot 31 year old that I met on this very site
Pmsl, sure. I bet the woman you’ve been most attracted to in life didn’t look twice at you. Stay bitter
Not true either
I think I shall do just this :D
I’m going to keep asking it and I’ll make more accounts and keep asking it :)
Wow. Pink anon is a bit of a crazy. No wonder she was cheated on.
Nah, just reported a troll so he’s reporting my questions back. My ex is blowing up my phone, he can’t get enough of me lol. And he’s cheated on all his girlfriends, nothing to do with me babe :)
And you decided he'd be a good boyfriend? Yup, crazy retard. Nothing new there.
The word retard is extremely offensive and shouldn’t be used as an insult. I’ve reported you.
It was that or asking if you were autistic, but that offends the autistic people.
Your insults are mad weak. No surprise from a teenager though lmao. Poor little kid
Course they are. Which is why you reported me calling you a retard? 🤷🤦 Logic may fail you, but it doesn't me.
But hey, least you're enjoying all the attention right? Even negative.😂😂 What a sad life to lead.
I didn’t report you because your insults were good, I reported you because you’re using a term for disabled people in an attempt to insult someone hahaha, learn the difference babe
see there's a difference between you and I. I don't call disabled people retarded, only morons.And unlike you, I know basic hygiene. Have a boyfriend so not really bothered about men blowing up my phone. And you're sat doing the same. you're also the saddo who creates multiple accounts to post the same question?So I win this game. It was mediocre but fun. 😂 2/10 would recommend.
Giving a lower score doesn't mean you win. 😂😂😂🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦 I take it back. Even retards are more intelligent.
You can’t take it back now babe! You lost, take that L and get gone. You’re only a kid, I’ll let you off x
Ahuh. A pink anon doesn't get to say the rules. But you tell yourself whatever you need to get sleep at night, little pink attention whore.
You wish you got attention you washed up rat hahaha
Nah. I get the RIGHT type of attention. The only rat I see is you, climb back into your little anon sewer. You're boring now.
I highly doubt that, that’s why you’re still lurking on my question. You’ll never get the last word boo. I’ll sit here alllllll day you tramp. Give up, take that L.