Partner and I were together for 3 years and have a son. Recently he’s become very hostile and aggressive towards me. I had to get a restraining order and now we’re going to court. I’m so saddened by this and I wish things could have been different. I still love him deeply though and can’t see myself being with anyone other than him but I need him to change and stop the aggression towards me. He was never physically violent but emotionally and mentally. Is there any hope that after court ordered counseling that things can be different and we can be a family again or is that the impossible and I just have to forget about him?