Ghosted - how to move on?

I recently dated a guy for 5 months until he ghosted in January. I was extremely hurt by his actions and still to this day have had a hard time finding closure to move on. A friend of mine saw him and the guy told her that his one regret in life is that he shouldn’t have ghosted girls and should’ve “manned up” and had that difficult conversation. He has ghosted a total of 3 girls. He said it still haunts him.

I’m still trying so hard to move on but it has been difficult. Should I reach out to him to see if I could possibly receive some sort of closure? Do you think he will respond? Im torn and want to reach to figure out “why” but I’m scared he won’t respond and I’ll be hurt all over again. Half of my friends are pushing me to reach out; the other half think I shouldn’t.
Ghosted - how to move on?
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