I ran into my ex last night. We had a nasty breakup and also went through a miscarriage. I found out he was seeing someone on the side and they have been together since last year when we broke up. The girl he was with was married and now she's divorced. Any who when I ran into my ex he looked me up and down. He said in a bitter tone of voice that I've changed and I'm not the same girl he used to know". I said yeah well dating a guy like you, loosing a baby and watching your Grammy die will do that to you". To be fair I didn't have any tattoos and i had my natural hair color when I dated him. Shortly after we broke up, I got blonde highlights, and several tattoos. Why is he acting like this?