How do I stop giving chances?

I forgave my ex.. well I had a right to be upset and just never forgive him.. but he always knows what to say to suck me back in! I guess I never learn my lesson.. well there is always the straw that broke the camels back. Anyways, 3 weeks ago he has me sign up for this event with him.. I confirmed up until a few minutes before the event.. then he texts me right at the last minute that something just came up.. I am upset because I believed him.. I knew he couldn’t be trusted. And is unreliable.. but he thinks he can cancel and whatever I’ll forgive him.. I get things come up but I think I have a right to be upset.. he will rationalize his behavior it’s so easy for him! Make an excuse, I’ll believe him, etc.. and he wonders why people don’t respect him. I am only upset at myself for believing him.. I text him after we hung up and he ignored it. I didn’t over react, I just expressed that bailing at the last minute isn’t cool, etc, smh 🤦‍♀️
How do I stop giving chances?
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