that implies that i already tried working it out and there's no way to make it work of course.
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What the hell are you even talking about? Don't call somebody feminazi on here. Grow up.
No you're just being an idiot. And cannot be mature with your responses.
Don't believe in feminism, dumb dumb. You just lack morals if you have a problem with what I have to say.
Feminism is exactly what you believe in. So excuse me for beliebing that marriage especially sex shouldn't be toxic.
I wouldn't divorce her for that, though. We would just talk about it and work through it together.
No sympathy for the bitch that married you under false pretenses. I know a couple where she used sex as a bargaining mechanism, or as a control freak. well, he left and had lots of other women. She is smoking hot, you see her naked and lying next to you in bed and she won't open her legs? really bitchy.
Damn I’m truly sorry if someone hurt you or someone that bad
Bull shit, there are so many hormonal corrections, it is quite funny now to hear that anymore, but they get over it and still LOVE SEX. Women get Vagifem, you place one in your vagina 3 times a week and will be fine.
Libido can't be replaced by hormonal correction...
Well libido starts in the head get a happy pill, Cymgen will help, but see you MD.
What you are saying helps the vagina with the dryness and vaginal atrophy that come with menopause, but if there is no desire for sex it can't be fixed with drugs.
Speak to my wife @ 62 I am 66.
Young man, there is a lot of ED amongst men who cannot get erections. The % is very high above 40, but there is good medication available, like Viagra, or Ciavor 20mg. Perhaps your testosterone levels are low and you need a shot once or twice a month. Go to your Doctor, many men with this problem. Just be aware there are many fake pills out there. Do something, I feel sorry for you, take care.
Yeah, but if you're asexual you need to tell that to people upfront.
@Jamie05rhs That's very true. Many considerations should be addressed.
How are you going to have kids? She has a Psychological problem and needs counseling. Get rid of her, you manage to get into bed every night with a woman you love and not try to have sex. Women are strange creatures, sometimes they can't get enough, I have made it clear to my wife, I need regular sex unless she is ill or has a problem. Still having lots of GREAT SEX after 20 years of marriage. Sex is the glue that keeps a couple married and happy.
@Badballie yes I agree %100
Okay so you don't love each other anymore, then just fuck. I don't know anyone who does not like sex. You know what you have and won't be wasting money on lawyers and fr homes. Work it out, what about the children? Or are they just refuse from a relationship?
It may be a hormone issue that is not pregnancy but other medical, environmental, or dietary cause, or she may have been raped and is recovering from violent trauma.
All this talking does not take your hard-on away. They will just exasperate you with all the talking, but then my wife knows, there has to be a reason, why she does not want sex, if no reason, I get very pissed off. If I lived in a monastery I would find it very hard to be celibate.
Does LOL LOL LOL marry an incel, SEX TRIVIAL? Go and get REALLY FUCKED BY A MAN WHO KNOWS WHAT HE IS DOING you will change your mind about sex. Einstein had countless mistresses, how more intellectual can you get?
@Badballie I guess your balls are bad from too much sex, hahaha. The IQ moved right from the brain into the balls.That's a good one. Thank you for making my day, hahahaha
I will have you know, I hold The following College degrees, MEd (psy) a BA a HED and A BSc Electronic engineering, so yes I love sex. Balls are still good
@Badballie Good for you then. You had me worried.Have a good day in nice South Africa
Thank you, you are really a nice kind lady.
Exactly. Most people don't realize what they are missing by wasting time with wrong people.
@Bootylicious905 "the right of aman and a woman in marriage is accessibility of sexual need from their partner"Well, not sure whay you keany by "sexual need" but hopefully they have sex cus they mutually want to (or at least don't mind to, ala a "quickie"), not cus they have a sexual need. If you have a sexual need then I would think you would just go ahead and hand-le that on your own.
So what human doesn't have sexual need. Were all created to pro create. Its natures way. Are you going against nature? Animals have sex too u know.
@Bootylicious905 Sure it is natural for humans to have biological urges but does that make it the "right" of married humans to have accessibility of sexual need from their partner? Most sexual urges can probably be relieved through masturbation, not through believing our partners are there to take care of our sexual urges.
My response understandably got some downvotes but you'll note I intentionally did not suggest divorce which to some would be a last resort. Granted there are marriages with no sex at all and the partners are fine with that, especially when the partners are older. In most cases, I would genuinely hope that the struggling partners would simply go to therapy, couples, individual or both and try to work things out. Maybe the one partner is going through depression and that's why she doesn't want to have sex. Maybe the no sex os temporary. There could be many legitimate reasons for not wanting to have sex. Perfectly understandable.But to address the OP's original question, is no sex grounds for divorce, I'd say no... but it could be grounds to *consider* an open relationship. You can still love your partner, still want to be married to them, still be ok with them not wanting to be sexual with you, but for some (probly not me) open relationship is an option.Romantic love is a two way street, and if I love my partner, but don't want to have sex with them (and can't see fixing that lack of desire over time, through say therapy), then do I have the right to restrict their sexuality? Do I have the right to expect or insist that they only be sexual with me, the one who doesn't want to be sexual with them. As that is their human right, I would not feel good about imposing that restriction. And that's not a romantic relationship. That's what friends do, and friends don't really care who we have sex with. Bill and Hillary... married longtime, best friends... with an open relationship.
Partners don't fuck each other. This is not a business transaction, you pay and you get...
@Badballie Actually, often times partners or strangers do just fuck each other, perhaps for sake of transactional procreation (?) Just like dogs in a dog park...
Very few men would turn down that kind of women down, listen, ladies, you want power over your man? Very simple just keep fucking him. He will not wonder, go to the pub for drinks, would stay with you. SEX power to women.
@Badballie You are right. I always makes sure that he is truly satified after a meeting with me. He does everthing for me. He treats me like a princess. All I need to do is to give him sex (a lot of sex)
I don’t date older men.
@Pjdbdp never asked you to, plenty of beautiful young women available, no shortage. Enough money to make the world go round.
Why would young women date you? Lol you’re old.
@Pjdbdp Its called money, nice homes dont have to work, nice MB 300 soft top sports car etc. Stay where you are and missed out on all these lovely things, why should I not give my money to ladies that give as much sex as want, and keep me happy. Perhaps you can't get a rich man in his forties? Jealousy?
Beautiful young women have standards and wouldn’t date old saggy guys like you. I rejected so many old men like you lol
I can get rich young men where I live. Old guys have nothing to offer. You also have a bad personality. So much for old guys being mature? Hahahha you’re not mature. You’re just old.
@Pjdbdp He's not old. He's just telling it as it is. If a woman didn't want to have regular sex she shouldn't have got married.
This is the answer. Without romance and/or sex - it becomes a friendship/companionship and not a romantic relationship.
Yeah. People often forget the sole difference between a good friend and a SO.
It's easier to shame men for wanting sex. lol
@Mrghost0067 Mmm, though it certsinly would nice and I'd be grateful if my partner would would "help", not sure I would expect that of them. (That being said we often help each other, out of the goodness of our hearts, in many aspects of our relationships. Part of what makes for a strong relationship.)(And no, Mrghost0067, I'm not suggesting you were implying otherwise. Just adding my two cents...)They have a right to say, "No, I will not help". It's not their job to basically "help" with what I would consider personal masturbatory needs. We are designed to hand-le that on our own.
Marriage a COMPROMISE like hell it is. ou sound like a FEMINAZI!!
@Badballie and you sound eternally single 😊