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Seek comfort to a friend, or maybe look for someone better. Easier said than done, but think about it, does that loser deserve your thoughts? Or you quitting your job? Don't give him that. I believe in you, don't think about it, move on.Good luck.
I like your response. Thank you. I'm stuck at the betrayal. How do I get past it?
Think of it as something that may soon end up being positive. You will find someone better and think you were "lucky" enough to not still be with that jerk and found that other someone. I hurts, I know, but he does not deserve you, simple as that. Do not let him exist in your thoughts, he is not worthy enough.
Sometimes I blame myself. That maybe I didn't do enough. I talked to him the other day and he doesn't seem to recognize what he did as wrong.
He could just be too selfish to realise his mistakes. You trying to see if you made mistakes is more than enough to show that it was mostly his fault. At least you are willing to recognize your mistakes and talk about it, he isn't, so he does not deserve your efforts, move on, you will find someone better, trust me.
If you stop trying to get over it then you’ll eventually get over it
Talk to HR about it and have you two as best as can be separated. I know it's not nice but stuff like this happens n for doing it your Ex is a dick
I'm so sorry to hear that it's best that you move on
would your work place allow that? if they dont do something about it, that much be hard
It's not defined.
id like to tell you to get another job, this much reminds me of being bullied in school a lot. but im no god to give a best option
I'm unable to get another job. What do I do in the mean time?
my bet is getting another relationship or something to detach from this person. they didn't care about you at all if thats what they did.
I'm stuck at the betrayal. I think about it all the time, constantly.
How do I get over the betrayal?
you get to have sex, make friends, relationships. can't say you are lucky
Definitely not lucky
Turn that sadness into anger and get your sweet revenge
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What would you do if it were you?
Get over it
Get a different job. Now you know why you don’t get your money and your honey at the same place
I'm unable to get another job at the moment? How do I keep my job and still move on?
That’s my point you can’t. You really fucked up here
I'd find a new job
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