My ex left me for another girl about 8 months ago. We were together 4 years. We all work together at the same place. I have to see them every single day together and it’s torture. I found out last night they are moving in together and I’m just wondering how someone can move on so quickly like I never mattered. I don't know I feel like he’s rushing everything with her. It just seems odd to me. I’ve been alone this whole time and it’s been the hardest year of my life. I’ve grown a lot but it still hurts like hell. He immediately started seeing her after our breakup and never took any time to himself. I know people heal in different ways just wanted to get another opinion. He also wants to stay friends and I have told him I can’t cause I still have feelings and he said he still wants me in his life. Do men really move on this quickly? I know I shouldn’t let any of this get to me but it is.