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Usually, one of the former partners wants more than just sex. They want to reignite the romance. They understand the other partner does not want that and will never to agree to have sex if they think the other one is wanting more, so the hopeful partner will claim that they just want to have sex. However, they will have the expectation that having sex will make the other partner also want to rekindle the relationship. After the sexual encounter, they will become angry that the strategy did not work.This happens so often that having sex with an ex is just generally a bad idea. . . unless you are okay with just using someone without regard to how it will affect them afterwards.
Because most of the time, the reasons they want it are at odds.The guy? He just wants the sex. Maybe he found out it's harder to get laid by someone else than he thought and it's been a while. Maybe he's got a nice STI he wants to share with you. Who knows?She? Runs the risk of emotional entanglement. Or thinks it means more than it does. Or think it's the way to get him back. Or thinks it will prove she's over him. In most peoples experience, it's a mistake. That doesn't mean you shouldn't do it if you want. Just that NO ONE will have any sympathy for you if come around crying about it afterwards.
He is an ex for a good reason and it is never good to get together again, even if it is only for sex.Trust in that person is missing and I would not want to have anything to do with somebody I cannot trust. Sex is not the only thing in life and certainly not with a person that you mistrust.Once that person lost my trust, it is for the entire life and for all situations in life, including sex.
provide neither of you are in a relationship with someone else. the having sex with your ex spouse should be ok. since your more or less just friends with benefits now.however if either of you are in a relationship with someone else. your pretty much cheating on that other person. unless they somehow are ok with you still having casual sex with your ex. but that is really rare.
Don't. Not a good idea unless you want to get back together! OR you are planning on having an "accidental" pregnancy that will keep you two together!
How about just plain old fucking? Common you two already know what each other like, and it saves a world of hassle to go out and get laid with someone you dont know. Plus time to figure out what he or she likes.That said if both are on same page about it.
Nothing I would personally do but as long as you don't hurt anyone I don't see what's wrong.You are both grown-ups.
Ya it's not good a ex should be someone your over with not trying to get it on with if there going to sleep with them they might as well get back together.
It was ok for me but then it kind of doesn't feel the same. Its like you really don't care for each other.
It's the worse but it's also the best if you know what I mean. 🌸💜🌸
It just doesn't make sense... you broke up so why even continue do that with them?
It´s okay as long as your ex or you are not in a relationship with someone else
No as long as both parties agree to it and if your not seeing someone else.
Me and my ex have sex sometimesWe. Both know what it is and we dont expect anything more
As long, you two are single so it’s fine I think lol.
As long as both are single and have the same expectations, it's fine
It's only bad if she stinks at sex.
It’s not bad. Just depressing
Been there, done that! What's the big deal?
Presumably ou're both grownups. Do what you want.
Where has that ex been do you really know?
I miss having sex with ex
It can be really fun
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