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Rent out a penthouse apartment, find some model-looking girls to invite back for weed, wine, have big sex party, take pictures of it all, then send the pictures to the cheating girlfriend with caption "I know you cheated on me so thought I'd return the favour, p. s. if you can't guess I'm breaking up with you." :D at least, that's how it would go in my head. The "real life" version would probably just be more like, confronting her over it and then breaking up there and then. "Eye for an eye makes whole world blind" and all that...TBH I could go either way, I've never caught a girlfriend cheating while we were together, I've only found out well after the fact. When she confessed it to me at last, we spoke for like 3 hours, then for a few weeks attempted staying friends still, but then she got with some other guy and blocked me on social media. So with hindsight I'd probably just cut off a cheating ex altogether, coz then she can't pull a double whammy by hurting me a second time.
At my age I'd take a moment to cry get angry a bit then just break up with him. If he has any stuff at my place I would pack it nicely in a box and either ship it to him or leave it on the patio for him to pick up. I don't cheat and I maintain pretty good self control even if I am tempted so I expect the same from my partner. If he chooses to break that trust emotionally and puts my physical well being at risk then he isn't the guy for me.I think going through a divorce (no cheating) makes one realize that angst and drama isn't worth it. It is better to know then think everything is ok and live blindly.
I would make sure to break up with her at the most inconvenient time for her I could think of, like in the morning right before she goes to work or on a girls night out she had planned right before she leaves. I would start off by talking about a favorite memory she has with me. Right when she gets in a good mood I would let her know I am leaving.
Oh that's actually the most convenient for girls though as they can't handle confrontation so would have a reason not to face their cheating as they have to leave lol
Dump her. I have a one strike rule. If I find out without her knowing, I dump her without giving her a reason.If she tells me, I dump her on the spot. It doesn’t matter where we are. As far as I know I’ve never been cheated on but I’ve always played this scenario in my mind and I decided that it’s the one thing I couldn’t waiver along with lying. I’d be open to hearing what she has to say but as far as staying with her? Nope.
Continue pretending that I am unfamiliar with their doings, take my time to detach myself from them and gaslight the hell outta them.P. S I won't bother doing that if I ain't attach to the person in a very close way. The more the hurt I get, the more I return.
Try to get thw truth an if so respect their honesty and see id there are ways to fix things.. If can't get rhe truth get out so it doesn't continue to happen.. What u accept will never change or continue to happen what u change will show everyone u are not willing to let yourself be made a fool or taken advantage of
I've never had the opportunity to "go about it". I've on many occasions within two relationships been the cheat.My Promiscuity wasn't the result of sexual or emotional neglect, it started early on in the relationship even before I felt the confines of monogamy in the relationship. I cheated simply because I find relationships to be confining and cheating exciting, the getting away with something he dont know about.
You’re kind of a dick.
Yeah, I know but dont think "kind of" has wiggle room.
You need to be stoned Muslim style
Yeah well, I told both of them they didn't really want to be with me. They acted like I had an esteem problem, no I've got a cheating problem.
Like I said you need to be out in the ground and be stoned. Disgusting adulterous whore.
One thing is when its because its very early in the relationship or because you dont like the confines of being in one (allthough then why are you?). But its just mean powertripping over it...
Feel angry, then upset and sick. Then avoid him like the plague until I was ready to confront him with it, by which point he’d already be leaving my life in my head and I’d be sure to let him know it. It’d be Goodbye along with everything that’d remind me of him. 👋🏻
If it weren’t a serious relationship I’d just leave without saying a word and probably let everyone know about it.
Find out why and how many times and then sperate myself from the relationship to see if in time they respond or not then you will know how to carry on.
I would want to do something elaborate that would embarrass him, but in all honesty I don’t think I could handle my emotions if I discovered that my partner was cheating. I might just fly into a rage and physically attack him on the spot. To my knowledge I’ve never been cheated on, but I know it would devastate me. I don’t even handle normal breakups well. I definitely would not be able to handle cheating.
"physically attack him on the spot"I'm curious what the reaction would be if a male said that about his girlfriend
@NumaleSoybeans I was exaggerating, but I’m sure my 6 ft tall 200 lb boyfriend could stop me from doing any real damage.
I would tell my partner and we would have a calm talk. I wouldn’t run in there and start yelling, I would set her down and let her know that I knew and that I still wanted to date her, but I would need to learn to trust her again.
I would turn his dog into dog food 🥘 and then I would shit on his side of the bed, pack up my things and leave him with a note... or... probably just pack a suitcase and walk out.
The best way to handle it, assuming you’re not married, is to break up immediately, tell them RESPECTFULLY not to contact you because it’s for sure over and block them on all socials if they do contact you. Respect your own boundaries.
Wouldn't scream or yell just confront communicate and try to work it out if it's legit but regardless I would leave for a about two weeks to see what I want to do overall
I'd just ghost him and leave... no explanations. To talk with him is only defeating that decision. He took away the right to have a discussion. Only my needs would matter. I don't think talking would create closure either. He messed up.
Confront immediately. That would be my natural reaction! However I Hope I’d be strong to know it’s over and then play him!
I’d say something that would stick with them for life and then I’d walk away and never allow them to see me again.
I would either break everything in his house orI would have a talk with him about it, break up and try to forget about it
I literally socked my ex in the face and left 🤷♀️ Oh well
Definitely play her game as long as i could tolerate it
Break up. I literally just went through this. And after it was all done I found out so much more. I’m happier now. I think it was a toxic relationship anyway.
You’re so beautiful. You definitely deserve better
try and solve it firstthen if that isn't working figure out what to do nextbut if all fails, I guess break up on respectful terms
Break up with them cheaters are selfish who have no respect for you or your relationship if they truly loved you they wouldn't ever want to hurt you by cheating on you
Was it a one night stand... How sorry are they? Do you think it's worthwhile keeping the relationship? Think they'll do it again? Are you going to get revenge?
I'd break up with him if I didn't feel I could trust him.
Shit that gives me a free pass to leave and also saved me years of strangling her 😂😂
Depends if its a guy or girl.. guy im out... with a girl ask to join.. lol
Tell them straight that I know they're cheating and leave without looking back..
I'd be in a precarious position, because I don't know if she knows I'm cheating on her?
id try talking to them about it if there was no way of fixing my trust or us then i would end it
Gather the evidence, show and break up
I would just say “have a nice life.”
I would feed her to my lions.
I would tell him I know and ask him to leave ♥️
Leave him and move on
Most of the time the other person knows
It’s over. Plain and simple
Tell her and then dump her.
i be happy, cuz i cheat a lot :D
Leave probably wouldn't even say a word just leave
Plan for her finale
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