Cheating seems to happen most often where communication is struggling. It seems safe to assume that she was either cheating on you, or at least had been planning to pursue a relationship with the other guy for a while. The separation was probably her way of pursuing things with the other guy in a slightly more honorable or ethical fashion (if those words can even be applied to a situation like that).
Dang that is some pretty fast recovery. I'm assuming there was an overlap?
@winterfox10 Yeah... I figure she had her eyes on him for a while and needed me out of the way. She denies this; but it is quite obvious.
@sejla I don't know for sure, but i suspect...
That's so sad 😔
She might not have cheated she just might have moved on emotionally long before the marriage ended. I Had a friend who was cheated on by her husband. Once she realized he wasn't going to try to make the marriage work with therapy and he didn't take personal responsibility nor seemed regretful for the cheating she moved on pretty rapidly. She had a casual relationship with a younger man before she finished the divorce.
I applaud you many would stay.
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What a fucking slutty bitch
Goes to show that you definitely don't need anyone that has no self-respect.
It sounds like you are conflicted in how you feel about her abusing you.
Just because things could have been different doesn’t mean they would have been better. But I get you.
Sorry to hear
How can I so you can understand? As a disclaimer I, ll say mgtow is not a movement but a philosophy. It means Somthing differnet to everyone.And no its not a bunch of women hating losers there are those guys and there are what people call incels, people full of negative emotions and often justified outrage when they realize the system has manipulated them.Never been married so im disqualified there, love as its portrayed in films is a lie.Society holds to s standard now thanks to feminism that destroyed the nuclear family and male to female relationships.Men and women are both suffering for it, its far easier to go mgtow and work on yourself, and learn to protect yourself from a foolish decision, than go through the divorce meat grinder.I still believe in marriage but in a different light, under narrow circumstances and being very careful about who you involve yourself with and why. And I say all that after seeing friends and other men and women suffer from failed marriages.
I am not divorced yet but somehow already feel liberated!