Can I get him back?

so I’ve been seeing this guy for almost a year now but he’s technically not my boyfriend but he would act/do things that if he was my boyfriend but then when I would question him on it he would be like I don’t like titles but would never give me a straight answer. About two weeks ago we had a fight he told me he hates me and he will never speak to me again and he puts that on his kids. We’ve had small fights in the past and I begged him pleaded with him and he came back and he did. with this time I decided to do the no contact. should I wait out the 30 days and then contact him or should I just stop wasting my time and should move on?
Can I get him back?
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