But he has “moved on”
and how long did it take him to "move on"? when was the last time you can think of when he still had feelings
im pretty sure that if he wouldve moved on that he probably wouldn't be talking to you about how he feels, the fact that he told you that seems like he is having trouble letting go, dont you think.
I don't know... we’ve known each other for 10+ years and have children
you guys were together?
Yes... we lived together for about 3 years. We were young so we split
well he still has feelings for you in some way and he isn't trying to loose it, y'all have known each other for a long time and its obvious that he isn't trying to just throw it all away, he is telling you what he feels so stop playing games, whatever games you are playing with him lol
I don't know what to do or if I should respond
well he doesn't seem to want to end this long relationship or friendship now what you gotta ask yourself if you do?
I don’t... I have been wanting to reunite for a while
then you have to work something out with him, see what is bothering him and try to work things out, you can't expect to work something out if you dont communicate.
I’m just worried about the other woman
well as long as you are still in his life then what you and him have isn't over, if he is trying to keep your relationship then i think we already know who he likes more.
Interesting... I won’t keep bothering you with all my questions but I’m a little excited. The opinion that you are giving is it because this is how you as a male think? What do you suggest I do without coming off as desperate and scaring him off? He seemed upset the last time that I reached out because I didn’t respond how he would have liked
well im me so if i was to tell my feelings to someone its cause i want that person in my life and something like 10 years isn't something you can just walk away from, just ask him how you are playing games, that you want to know so when he tells you, you will know and if he really wants to fix things he would tell you.
Yikes... I’m scared but ok
But what if it’s an ex that has supposedly moved on?
Doesn't sound like he has. Question is what do you want to do about it?
I want to work it out
Then let him. Make him aware. Just be careful because exs are usually exs for a reason
I think he knows. I started dating and it kind of made him jealous. We stopped communicating for a while and then I reached out to try and work out something with our children but I think he thought I was speaking about us.
Hmm seems likes therees a lot more to this story. Feel free to private message me and we can continue a more in depth conversation
Are you able to message me?
I'm not sure why it's not letting me. Trying messaging me
I’m not able to due to not having many points?
Omg same. Can you follow me? I'll follow back
Same. We can private message once we have enough points or whatever for now we can settle for this :)
What does that do?
I'm new to this as well. But I think as we level up we can private message others?
I was just wondering if you were
Just curious why did you two end the first time around?
He cheated and we fought about it, mom was always in our business and we were young parents.
That's always rough. But hey sometimes it's better to forgive and forget as long as you know he's not doing the same bs again
That’s the thing... I don’t know if it’s sincere or not. That’s why I’m like what does he mean by what he said
I mean to me if I was being serious I wouldn't approach you with that line. doesn't sound so sincere you know what I mean?
Hopefully that helped some. Feel free to ask anything else :)
I mean I would like to know if that was serious but of course the only way to know is to ask but I don’t know what to say or how to approach him
Maybe give it a little bit of time to see how it plays out before directly asking him
Ok I will try it
From an ex of whom I have known for 10+ years that has moved on?
Clearly he hasn't moved on if that's what he said to you
Has someone ever said that to you?
Similar but not exact same words
What was the outcome?
We admitted our feelings for each other but it wasn't a good time for a relationship
Do you mind sharing what was said as far as how it was brought up?
I can't remember now, it was awhile ago
And it was on Snapchat so I don't have the messages anymore sorry
An ex though?
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He’s an ex that’s supposedly moved on
Sounds like he ain't
Interesting... so how should I respond? Should I respond?
That’s the same thing I said... he’s been like that for a while. I want him back but I’m not sure if he’s ready nor do I want to mess up
don't go back to ex'sGET A NEW MAN
Explain why not
why do you think
Also he is the father of my children
Yeah, and?My cousin and his wife just recently divorced, they got kids
I’m open for what you have to say
Ok? That still doesn’t explain anything but I’ll just leave it alone