How about a year?
Well. Never so far but yes, I could see it taking a year or even multiple years. This would again just be the point of being relationship ready. I don't believe you're ever really over an ex.
Yea bc I’m trying to decide whether or not to date someone who is only out of a relationship for a year. They were into me at the time but stopped talking bc they were in a relationship. He’s also a cop and works Long hours. So even if he is over her he may be focused on work or may want to enjoy being single so I’ve kind of left it alone till I’m ready. I’m trying to pass a difficult exam so I’m making that my #1 priority. Makes sense?
I’ll worry about him in the future.
I get you. My advice would probably be to nail the test first and the guy after. For some reason I have a 50%+ mho rate so my advice might actually be alright sometimes.Honestly most guys are date-ready after a year. And even if he is not or wants to stay single, worst case you get a no and he gets to feel complimented. Best case you can decide on. I just see both of those outcomes being better for you than wondering.
I agree. I think if I text out of impulse like right now, it won’t work out. But if I let it be and worry about it in a few months I’ll be better off. Agreed,
Your test? Sure. Although you're still stuck having the 'love brain' syndrome - studying goes to hard-mode from that. Not like waiting does any good for the potential relationship though.If it is a few months until then you might as well just text the guy. You'd lose more focus on wondering than a date or two.
On another note, I got used for sex a year or two ago and I’m still recovering from that. Even though I do like the guy I’m talking about, I’m still enjoying my freedom and healing from that. Another reason why I haven’t reached out.
Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions