i don't even get why people would want to befriend their ex.. kinda weird..
what?😅 you live with him? i wouldn't fear, i simply wouldn't be with a women who hangs around with her ex. whahahaa the name Gag becomes more suspicious by the day😂
Lol You don't Know Me as Master Here, dear, But no Fear.. My Ex is like a Family member, We also have a Business Together. No monkey Play though. xxoo
Lol I see No Future Master But a Blaster. xxoo
why did my message disappear🤔
Lol I am Master Moderator, Didn't I Say, bae? lolxxoo
and you dislike me?
lol No, silly, follow me and join me. xx
i knew you had some powers yes, by the way
Lol I followed you, I love the fact you are from Dutch Country and love cats. xxoo
join you? and why is my country positive?😁
Lol Well, I for One am some Dutch. lolxx
why do y'all feel the need to control me?
guess it would be better for me to just leave..
so you're trying to show that you're not bitter? sure that she doesn't get any validation out of that other than it being friendly?
being incapable of burning bridges can be very damaging if you ask me
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I never felt attracted to a friend. doesn't that automatically make it something else than a friend would be, one who wasn't attractive? doesn't that also have impact on the way y'all treat each other in comparison to other friends?
this is an example on why the definition of being a friend should be clearer for everyone who talks on this
One person is going to have lingering feelings. Bringing up details about other people you are dating is going to sting more or less, even if you feel like you moved on. I feel lots of people nowadays feel like completely disavowing an ex from your life no matter how it ended is the way to go. That’s appropriate if the ex did something fundamentally wrong (my last ex threatened suicide after I broke up with her). But it’s cruel and selfish if it’s just didn’t work out.
Just keep things friendly but have boundaries. There is one ex I have I miss immensely. And nothing fundamentally wrong happened for our breakup other then disconnection. She disavowed me and that hurt very deeply.
I've been hurt a lot as well. but i carry no ex'es around. neither can i see why that would be beneficial, would rather hurt or bother me
You did invest a lot of time with this person and they were a part of your life. I think completely disavowing somebody is also disavowing all the memories of that, including the good memories. If there wasn’t anything fundamentally wrong (cheating, abuse, etc.) than I think it’s okay to catch up WITH boundaries. I reason I got some hang ups over this one is that I didn’t get closure on something serious. I ended up writing her email about and forgiving her saying I would never contact her again. That was 3 years ago and I’ve kept my word. I know it extremely unlikely I’ll ever hear from her for the rest of my life. Then I had to break up someone else 2 months ago. At least I gave her closure face to face. She went apeshit and threatened to kill herself. But at least I left that knowing I did the right thing.
doesn't he want to have sex with you, i never do so with my friends
I AM A VIRGIN
He lives in Pakistan and I live in England.
It was a long distance relationship. I never had a face to face conversation with him.
that's to be called an ex?;p
I still spoke with him for a year... and I am Asian
latterly 100% that all needs to be said.
clearly defining what it means to be a friend, is necessary to be able to start a discussion on that.