She's very confident and sometimes a bit arrogant, if you are asking that. She said she doesn't mind because she's on friendly terms with her own ex, even though they don't really talk to each other anymore.
you rae more than friends, you are supporting her. That's generous, I have no problem with it for some time.. and it's good she accepts. But that is more than talking.my rule #1... don't believe what women say. Rule #2: remember rule #1. because they change emotionally so much...you're doing a good job, keep up the good work!!!
I'm being careful to not fall in that trap
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That's the right idea, but since my ex lives with my sister I can't really cut her off, also because I want to help her out with her issues. I also have to help them financially as they don't have exactly a steady income.
That's not your problem, man.
If they were at least they would not harass me all the time
Why do they harass you? Is it because of how you broke up?
A bit, but they also want me to spend time with them and not fall off the grid from them
By harass do you mean just annoying you? or actually bothering you, calling you names, threats etc?
They just keep calling and texting me and sometimes show up at my door when I'm home. They don't call names but guilt trip
You should tell them to give you space and stop guilt tripping you... if your ex keeps guilt tripping you, you should cut contact, if she really cares about you she’ll stop guilt tripping you and give you space. Not harassing you and trying to make you feel bad. If she keeps doing it she doesn’t really care about how you feel, she’s being selfish at that point and just wants you to get back with her.
But it is way different and uncomfortable
But we were friends since when we were kids, many other friends in common.. I have no other choice