Me and my boyfriend had a very turbulent, crazy relationship. He was very manipulative/controlling and he kept making excuses for his behavior (ie: im stessed, i am just worried about you). There were times that I felt like reaching out to his ex girlfriend to get her advice or opinion on him. I never did because he said that was a violation to him. Now we are broken up and I feel this urge to make sense of everything and find someone that knows what I went through. It was such a mind f*ck being with him and I really want to talk to his ex. Is this okay to do?