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Just go on with your life and in time you will get over this EX and find a girl more to your liking ! I have been single all my life ! I am very selective about who I date too ! Like every one should be ! One guy I dated by the name of Mike I met by putting an ad in a news paper and this was years ago too ! Mike came to my house for a date here ! all was fine until Mike hit me in my own house and with my siblings and parents here too ! Mike hit me after I fed him pizza and gave him cups of ice to put his soft drink in ! ALL I was doing was heating my pizza up in my microwave ! Mike yelled at me and told me to move out of his way - ! I told him I was just heating up my pizza in my microwave ! Mike got up , hit me , I started crying , he hugged me to quiet me so my family downstairs would not hear us ! I forgave Mike for this for I am a Christian ! another time Mike and I were going out and while he was driving , he put his hand on my left leg and squeezed it so hard I thought he would break it ! I tried to remove his hand but he had to much of a grip on my leg it and I was afraid he would cause an accident by taking his hand off of my leg ! then while his hand was hurting my leg for some ignorant reason he said to me - I think your boy crazy - ! Needless to say I stopped dating Mike and he married a woman from another country ! Mike lives with his wife and her parents too
When you have a break up when you are you like you sometimes people take it pretty hard. I think many times boys take it harder than girls. Have you thought of therapy?
I have thought about it, I just need to go through with it.
Fake it till you. make it. Got to get yourself back out there and asap. Single and mingle is the key to unlock your paralysis. Now go and soon enough a fresh outlook will take you over
I meant to put when you are young it is sometimes harder to break up. I think the other advice is good to fake it until you make it but, also, therapy is good so you know how to survive another break up if it happens again it will be a little easier to handle next time.
thank you for your input, I appreciate it
It just takes time. Eventually you will heal. Just try and get out there and have some fun in the meantime to help the healing process expedite itself.
I also think some therapy might help you since two years is a pretty long time.
I'll look into it thank you.
Good luck. I'm also having a tough time getting over a breakup, so I know how it is.
I'm in the same boat as you so I can't really give you much advice because I haven't dated in years
sorry to hear, if I find anything that helps me I'll be sure to let you know.
Right on I was ghosted after 1 n half years. Drove me nuts until I realized her Narcissist silent treatment is more hurtful than being punched out by a bunch of guys. Pain is the same and silent treatment is the immature way to show your lack of confidence and wisdom
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