Is it wrong to message someone just after they've gone through a break up?

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This guy Jack that I went to high school with just went through a breakup. He'd been on and off with this girl for like 2 years. He'd taken her on e a long trip and when they got back he found out she'd been cheating on him. So now they're obviously broke up. He's been putting on Facebook how he's hurting, he's also been getting really drunk very often (WAY more often than before) and he's just really down.

My question I guess is it wrong or weird or something if I message about his situation. Like send a supportive message to encourage him to go down a good path and grow from this experience? Help. I feel like I need to say something cause everyone is just encouraging him to get blacked out, have sex with randoms and so on.
Is it wrong to message someone just after they've gone through a break up?
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