Why am I not over my ex (s)?

I’m not over either one of them. The 1st lasted 5 years. The 2nd, I have stronger feelings for still. Only lasted 2 years. I still have feelings for both of them, especially the more recent one, which was a year ago. He hasn’t spoken a word to me for a year since we broke up. Can’t get over him. Why?
Why am I not over my ex (s)?
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