I have gone out on 4 tinder dates this week and it’s sucking the life out of me. I put in all this effort to look nice and attractive/ be interesting/have hobbies, yet nothing seems to stick. One guy I slept with and haven’t heard from despite him saying multiple times he wanted to see me again and how much he was enjoying himself, the others didn’t give me any compliments ( I know you should expect them but I usually get them on dates so it’s odd for me). It’s making me feel like something is wrong with me. One of the guys I went out with this week is so clearly more into my best friend than me and it hurts. What can I do? I’m not even looking for a relationship but it’s getting me down going on these dates where a guy either wants sex/ghosts.