Stop doing that and the world will come to order. People need to suffer so those who exit suffering can join up freely. Otherwise whomever you have rescued owes you a debt of gratitude (and so we end up with paper money and debt-based economy (I am not saying that is in any way a bad thing - it's the best we have so far - but everyone is on the lookout for better, I am just busy checking the engineering in detail - women refuse the white knights, men so far don't - in that regard women have it waaaaay easier (I want the status of the rescuer just as much as the next girl)))
Haha ha that's hilarious. He may not think so, so yeah best not to let him know it was you.Maybe years from now, tell him and you'll both get a good laugh bout it
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I told him as a teasing joke to tease the girl he was interested in by the way.
He broke up with her because he had chance with HER, or with you?
Also known as 'cock-blocking' - aka earning my brownie points while I screw up somebody else's efforts.And you cannot for the life of you be a judge (short of being appointed one)
@soleil2666 When my clean cut friend tries to get back together with her ex druggy boyfriend who has cheated on her twice. I cock block the shit out of him.
Hope you realize that you only gonna make the opposite effect by doing that
@crazy8000 You don't know my friends, you don't know what happened. It did not have the opposite effect because I had a nice talk with her. Me and my friends give eachother relationship advice all the time, it's not like I am sticking my nose where it doesn't belong.My friends almost always ask what I think, and I tell them. That is all I am doing. I don't see why it is a big deal.
And you apparently doesn't know how emotions effect human brains 😉
@crazy8000 I know how emotions effect people. Point and case this question. I normally try to be a reasonable person, but can go completely mokey brain when I see somthing online that upsets me.by the way did you know monkey brain is an official term? I find that so funny.Anyways, I don't hardcore push the guys out of their lives. I just tell them that I'm not sure if I trust the guy, and to be careful. Usually they break up with them on their own.My closs friend recently got really hurt by a guy, and I kind of played a role in ending it. I got uppity when I saw the question. I am sorry if I was rude.
Good name on that phenomenon.Unfortunately rarely keep track on names on certain phenomenons.People have a tendency to hear and see what they want when they have feelings for someone.
Why do you even speculate on someone else's relationship? Playing sorcery, are we?You know what the reformation does with the witches?
How is it your business to rescue? And why is the 'rescuer' labeled a complex (insecurity) in a man (the white knight)?You like being a lady in white, the knightess, too much?(well the mocking sounds is just a copy of the voices of the Internet - I don't have anything against a lady that does he rescuing - providing she wears a sword)
@soleil2666 Why you harassing her, good for her. At least the husband was thankful.
Thanks oram. :)
So mean. 😭
Plus I give all of me.
The very concept of the rebound is funny. We all need care when wounded, the parents won't provide it - and you don't want to go to a hospital...
Rebound belong on basketball court!
Then why not?
This is purely by coincidence but such an event, where I have romantic interest in someone AND that person is in a relationship, has never presented itself upon myself, so therefore I've never exactly had the opportunity to break up someone else's relationship or any reason to want to do so.
Indeed, I do.
Indeed, you do
I didn't read the part about them breaking up due to something I did unintentionally and actually I just remembered I homeboy of mine was getting married in 2 days to some chic he wasn't with for more than 3 months so I just meet her and that night we're partying all night on a golf course and we had been out there for a few hours when my homeboy started tripping saying she disappeared so we all started looking and I noticed her hiding behind a tree so my homeboy couldn't see her but I could and she was staring at me rubbing her titties and pussy trying to get me to come over there with her. After the 30 seconds or so of shock went away I yelled to my homeboy and said she's over there hiding behind that tree later when we were somewhat sober I told my homeboy what she was doing I didn't want him to marry her and not know how she was. Anyways he started tripping just like I knew he would but I felt I had to tell him no matter what and yeah they still got married and I wasn't invited anymore it was a few years before me and him talked again and we weren't tight like before and the real fucked up part was they didn't make it 6 months
I don't believe you can incur any guilt or blame for existing - if anything, we are all a product of our belief systems/the sum (such as it is) of all of our influences - parental, social, learned, sometimes forced (PTSD stuff).So in that regard, if they break up because you once knocked on the door asking for a lamp because your car broke down - that's God's business, not human (may be a human failure - but that is why we have this concept of God - the ideal state we will one day get to (or come from, depending on how you view the timeline))
So that you can have the guy?
So the one confident woman that doesn't need to steal another's eggs (or spermies, as the case may be)