Why would they do that? Do they get off on making you feel like shit? Pointing out your flaws Have you ever experienced this? They say hurtful things to you , bash you in front of friends etc. The second you walk away they chase you and act like you should still like them or love them. Is it Narcissistic behavior? Is this a girl thing? Cuz I experienced this kind of behavior from a few girls to be honest. and I don’t tolerate it. If you like someone or love someone why would they want to put you down?