U r fucking twisted man
Thanks. I appreciate the compliment
That’s true thank you. 😪 it’s just a lot of pressure. I don’t know anything about kids. Never been around them. I get sick thinking about being pregnant. I just wanted some of his friends or family to wait and have kids closer in age but I’m not ready yet. I need another year at least. I’m so sick of everyone asking too! It makes me feel like a bad person. I don’t even know if I can have kids. What if I can’t?
All of these worries and concerns means that you're perfectly ready to have a child when you finally have one. Take this opportunity to gain some experience so that when you finally have a child you'll be prepared. Take as much time as you need. That will be your child growing in your body. Not to mention the fact that there is no guarantee that the guy you are currently with will be the childs father or will even stay around to help you raise and parent that child. Speaking of him, talk to him about this. Openly and honestly. Get his opinions, thoughts, fears and concerns. And seeing that you're sick of everyone asking you, tell them that and to stop it. Tell them that whenever you two decide to have a child, it will and is between you and him. Also, if you can or can't have children is up to God. Not you. However, I believe that he will bless you to be a mother and parent. And a great one at that.
Thanks 😢 It’s stupid to stress over it but I seriously have pure anxiety over getting pregnant and raising a kid.
Which will make you a great and compassionate mother. An open, honest, caring and understanding parent.
She may not be able to have them so I'll cover your answer with adopt if you can't then bit I agree with you. Sorry to say but the question giver sounds like a stuck up b word. Sorry not sorry
@isupposethisworks It sounds like she's pressuring herself. But either way I don't think that's a good excuse for not being happy for your siblings having kids.
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