Will it last forever
No. It'll only last as long as you allow it to.
I mean her new relationship
Maybe, she may end up marrying the guy; kids and a house and all that as well. Why does it matter to you?
What if they dont
Then she will be single again and most likely move on with her life. I suspect this kind of obsessive thinking is why you two aren't together anymore, at least in part. She'll most likely never come back to you, you just have to move on.
What should I do to get her back
Leave her alone... no seriously. She is in a new relationship, if you try anything now all you will do is brand yourself a stalker and push her further away.
OK I have been doing no contact for a while
Keep it up. Trying to pull her away from her new relationship won't do you any favours. Being friends with her will make it harder to let go of her.
I did break it a few times in the past and most recently but I then go back to no contact
I know it's hard, but you need to keep it up. The more you attempt to contact her the more she is gonna ignore you.
So if I go back to it does that mean it's not broken
No it's broken, but you can restart and not break it this time
Yeah so a fresh start
You got it
If I keep doing no contact now then what could happen
You'll get over her and she'll forget about you.
OK I thought she might come back
No she definitely won't come back, she has been actively blocking you and has a new relationship. Those aren't the behaviors of someone wanting their ex back.
How do you know
Predictable patterns are easy to follow. You broke up (most likely she broke you guys up), she moved on, you starting obsessing over, you went between fits of contacting her too much (most likely mentioning how much you miss her) and not contacting her at all for short periods of time, she had enough and blocked you on several platforms, she further moved on and started up a new relationship, you continued to obsess, she is resisting by keeping her contact with you as minimal as possible, you've talked to other girls but can't drop your obsessive behaviours. You have to leave her alone to truly be able to move forwards
What if I do leave her alone
Then you will move and you both can be free of your obsession.
Yeah but I offered her a proposal once
That makes literally no difference. She didn't accept, that doesn't justify an obsession.
OK I see
But she wanted the real thing
Clearly not. People can change their minds. Perhaps you were too much to handle, perhaps she was lying. It really doesn't matter. She DID want it, now it's the last thing she wants.
OK but I think no contact will help
It definitely will. Keep it up and you will see yourself get over her.
Alright what about them
I mean her and the new boyfriend
They will move on with their lives. You were never part of their decisions or their new future together. I hate to break it to you but she will probably be happier having you no longer in her mind.
OK I see then
Well I found a new girl on this dating site
She's really cute
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